Wednesday, August 15, 2007

A ship call Relation sunk like Titanic

My friend called me today asking me how life was. I told her life is still good and I asked how is she. She told me that she had just ended a relationship a weeks back. I offered her my condolences and she was surprised. She didn't feel sad because she was the one who ended the relationship. Not the other party. So I told her that it must have hurt a lot for that guy. She said it does but she got no choice. The guy was too dependable on her and she was tired of it.

She complained that the guy refuse to let it go and has been wanting to patch the relationship back. I told her that the guy must love her a lot. She just sigh and said that she wish that the guy would be more suave. Once its gone and the mind is set, nothing could ever bring them back again. She has tried telling the guy that even if they go back together, they won't be happy. I agreed with her.

She wanted to let the guy know, that, whatever he is doing now, is actually making her unhappy. She wanted to sms him, email him or any other communication, except from talking to him. So I told her to write him something, maybe poetry. Since they fall in love because of poetry, maybe poetry would be the best way to get things across, I suggested.

She was quite surprised with the idea and cursed herself aloud for not thinking about this earlier. However, she told me that she couldn't come up with something right now as she is frustrated with him. I told her to take her time, come up with something that would put her point across without really having the need to hurt him again. She told me she doesn't even care, she just wants to put the whole point across and make it stay. She asked to come up with something. I told her I shouldn't be the one doing this as it is not my relationship. It's between her and her guy.

She just go 'duh' and ordered me to come up with something. She says that she will review it and made some changes to it if it is necessary. So being nice as I have always been, I wrote it and email to her. When she saw the email, she said that I was too soft. I told her do as she deem fit to it and send it to the guy. She said okay to it and she did it.

Below is what I have written:

If an oasis shared by the both of us
is like a cosy room that is imprisoning us
it becomes a wall for the both of us
obstructing happiness away from us

If the desire of spreading both of our wings
is like a dream that we have been sharing
causing us to fight for the space in between
has only bring us more grief

Listen to the cries of my heart
it isn't that hard
For I just want to be free
Listen O'thee

The end is here
There's nothing much to hear
All will fall on deaf ears
Leave it as it is to be

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